Welp. So in the grand theme of "not mentioning major life developments until weeks or even months after they occur", Sophia and I broke up! Eeeyup. We'd been dating long enough that it was feeling pretty serious, and a serious relationship leads to serious discussions leads to the sad realization that we actually had fairly different visions of where things were going long-term. So it was mutual, and as amicable as these things ever go, and we're still very very dear friends - but only friends. So it goes.